Okay I've decided to talk about something that I'm sure a lot of men go through but never talk about. I, myself have gone through this so many times that it's almost second nature for me to handle it the way that I always do, but not every guy in my situation may know how to.
I've heard from so many men "man my girl doesn't like it that I have any female friends" and I can understand that, and that's because women are bitches. Yeah I said it, women are bitches; mean, evil, cut your throat in your sleep evil creatures. It's not their fault, they just understand that what they have is a good thing and it's in their nature to protect what they have by any means, and when another woman is trying to take what is theirs they will kill that woman in cold blood at the very thought of that. Fellas how many times have you heard, "it's not that I don't trust you, I just don't trust her"? Well that explains their mentality (even though it sounds like BS to us men).
Here's a scenario that most of you don't really hear about, or at least men you don't really hear about. Think about the times your girl has had a homeboy that you necessarily weren't too sure about, you think he's actually up to something. The problem only gets worse when she tells you that there's nothing going on between them, and that she actually considers him one of her closes friends.
Now I myself have been on the side of the man, with my ex whose closest friend was a guy whom she's known since high school. I paid some attention to it but after meeting him I stopped worrying about it.
I have also been on the "her friend" side of things which I currently am on now and well IT'S WACK.
Fellas no matter what you say to some of these men to convince them that you're not going after their lady, no matter how many times you see him, no matter what she says, if he's insecure about himself you'll only be adding fuel to the fire. I have done nothing but try to be nice, decent, and polite more so for my homegirl but it has done nothing.
I am used as ammunition to take shots at them which is unfair because why use me against her?
Does it really matter why I'm friends with her friends on Facebook?
Why didn't you just tell me you didn't like me when you saw me?
Why bring my name up when you've never met me in person?
I've grown up with women all my life, and for whatever reason that I STILL can't explain to this day, women feel comfortable around me. But not like the "They'll sleep with me" type of comfortable, but they I'll eat a whole tub of ice cream in front of you without you judging me type of comfortable. This apparently makes men who are insecure uncomfortable, but what isn't talked about is how the friend feels. It's hard because as a friend to her you want to be nice to the boyfriend because all you hear from her is how wonderful a guy he is. But as a MAN you don't want to fuck with the person at all because they're behaving this way.
Like I said before, I've gone through this scenario many times so I know how to handle myself in it. I thought it'd be interesting for some of you guys to read about it and just gain a new perspective for the other person as this side doesn't get talked about often.
Monday, February 21, 2011
"Miraculous" by Willie The Kid
I love this song right here. Everything from the beat, the chorus, and the lyrics. Perfect music to ride to.
Incredible Ant Colony video
The video speaks for itself. Damn near 10 tons of cement just to fill the whole thing out!! You made not enjoy it but I sure did...but I also love the show Planet Earth.
Funniest office meltdown EVER
There's always that joke about white people and what'll happen when they get fired from their job, "Oh watch out, Dale is gonna come back tomorrow and shoot the whole office up" and every gets a good laugh while Dale loads up his guns for the morning.
Well rather than taking the time to let his anger fester and turn into something bigger, this man decided to just lose it on site. I have never seen such an office meltdown but I am SO HAPPY that it was captured on tape. Kudos to you sir for bypassing the 7 day notice and putting work at a standstill for about a day or so after destroying all that equipment. Peep the peaceful music, almost soothing while witnessing all the chaos isn't it?
Well rather than taking the time to let his anger fester and turn into something bigger, this man decided to just lose it on site. I have never seen such an office meltdown but I am SO HAPPY that it was captured on tape. Kudos to you sir for bypassing the 7 day notice and putting work at a standstill for about a day or so after destroying all that equipment. Peep the peaceful music, almost soothing while witnessing all the chaos isn't it?
Why humble is the best way to go
If you haven't seen this video yet consider yourself LAME...or just not as much of a Youtube junky as myself. This video right here ranks Top 10 in my favorite Youtube videos of all time. I commend him for taking the risk of going into the ring after putting on such a show. The funniest part about this video other than the ending is that the song that he's going out to is HIS OWN SONG!! Could you imagine Mike Tyson going out to a song that he rapped?? Incredible!
Facebook name changes
As some of you already saw on my Facebook status, I have an issue with Facebook allowing people to change their usernames. Sure I understand that if it's your own page you should be able to make it into whatever it is you want it to be, but to a certain limit.
There are some people who are NOT supposed to be given the creative freedom as everyone else, because what happens is that they make themselves look like a damn fool when their creative juices flowing. The real issue with the Facebook names isn't so much people changing their first or last name to their middle name and last name combination (e.g my buddy Terrance changing his first name to Avery which is his middle name), it's the ghetto people who want to change their names to ignorant ass shit. Here are some examples of what I'm talking about.
Real Name: Jonathan Gathers -------> Jon Jon Trapstar Gathers
Real Name: Denise Summers ----> Necee Fancychik Summers
Real Name: Marcus Johnson ----> Young Pistolholder Johnson
Real Name: Alicia Walker ------> Licia Lightskinredbone Walker
ARE YOU SERIOUS?!! When Dave Chappelle said on his show "We shoulda never gave you niggas money" he might have been on to something. There are times when you are given the opportunity to be creative, and some of those times you jump at the opportunity, and other times you leave it alone. For most of the people in the Black community, I think we should just leave Facebook name changes alone. I know that some of us don't go by the name that is on our Facebook, or go back some sort of variation of it, I get that. But to add an alias to a name that you don't like just to make a name that no one in their right mind would select is well...just stupid!
There are some people who are NOT supposed to be given the creative freedom as everyone else, because what happens is that they make themselves look like a damn fool when their creative juices flowing. The real issue with the Facebook names isn't so much people changing their first or last name to their middle name and last name combination (e.g my buddy Terrance changing his first name to Avery which is his middle name), it's the ghetto people who want to change their names to ignorant ass shit. Here are some examples of what I'm talking about.
Real Name: Jonathan Gathers -------> Jon Jon Trapstar Gathers
Real Name: Denise Summers ----> Necee Fancychik Summers
Real Name: Marcus Johnson ----> Young Pistolholder Johnson
Real Name: Alicia Walker ------> Licia Lightskinredbone Walker
ARE YOU SERIOUS?!! When Dave Chappelle said on his show "We shoulda never gave you niggas money" he might have been on to something. There are times when you are given the opportunity to be creative, and some of those times you jump at the opportunity, and other times you leave it alone. For most of the people in the Black community, I think we should just leave Facebook name changes alone. I know that some of us don't go by the name that is on our Facebook, or go back some sort of variation of it, I get that. But to add an alias to a name that you don't like just to make a name that no one in their right mind would select is well...just stupid!
New look for the blog
Hello Everyone,
First let me say thank you for taking the time out to read this. You could be doing anything right now but instead you're reading my thoughts and feelings, and for that I thank you so much. For some of you who check out my blog from time to time you notice that 9 times out of 10 I'm posting up poetry, and don't worry I'll continue to post up my art. I have decided to take a different approach for a little bit just to change it up and make it more entertaining for my viewers. What's this mean?
*Videos
* Pics
*Random thoughts
*Music
*And pop culture stuff.
I'm looking forward to changing up the blog and making it more inviting for more than those who just love to read my poems. Let's see how far I can take this whole blog thing and I can only make it happen with my viewers so once again thank you.
First let me say thank you for taking the time out to read this. You could be doing anything right now but instead you're reading my thoughts and feelings, and for that I thank you so much. For some of you who check out my blog from time to time you notice that 9 times out of 10 I'm posting up poetry, and don't worry I'll continue to post up my art. I have decided to take a different approach for a little bit just to change it up and make it more entertaining for my viewers. What's this mean?
*Videos
* Pics
*Random thoughts
*Music
*And pop culture stuff.
I'm looking forward to changing up the blog and making it more inviting for more than those who just love to read my poems. Let's see how far I can take this whole blog thing and I can only make it happen with my viewers so once again thank you.
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